The Importance of Family Time

When I was growing up, my parents always made it a point to sit down and eat dinner as a family. Although like most siblings, my sister and I would often end up arguing or bothering each other, it was our family time to catch up and talk at the end of the day. If I had a good day, it was my chance to share my happiness with my family. If my day wasn't so good, it was my chance to unburden myself at the end of a long day. Sometimes I did not talk, but instead listened. I listened to my sister talk about her plans for the weekend with her friends, or about the teacher who she was sure hated her. I heard about my father’s day at work or about something interesting my mom had heard from her friends. Sometimes, on occasion, I even heard stories from my parents about their childhood.

Flash forward many years later, I have two children, a great wife, and a wonderfully hectic life. Between work and extracurricular activities, we seem to always be on the go. However, despite the occasional craziness, we try to maintain one constant--the family dinner. Of course, due to busy schedules, it isn't always possible for all of us to eat together. So, we've created another family tradition, sharing time before bed. We spend a few minutes before bed talking about what made us happy during our day and what made us feel not so happy. And if there's time, my wife and I take a few minutes to tell family stories, either about our children when they were smaller, or about our own childhoods.

I truly believe that it is important for families to consistently take the time to talk at the end of the day. Families may choose dinner or bedtime, or even some other time that works best for them, but regardless of what they do, the end results is the same--bringing the family closer and bringing security to our children. In fact, studies have suggested that teens that engage in family dinners more than 5 times a week were less likely to engage in smoking, drinking or using drugs, and in fact, performed better in school.

Now being a parent, I completely understand why my parents made this a routine. Times are different now, compared to then, but the need to connect as a family still remains. I'd be interested to hear what "family-time routines" you've started - please leave me a comment on Facebook.

Viren Bavishi, D.O.

Pediatrician

Meriter Pediatrics

2275 Deming Way, Suite 220

Middleton, WI 53562

608.417.8388

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Get in Shape this Summer

Looking to run a road race this fall? Preparing your son or daughter to join the cross-country team? Just want to shed a few of those hibernation pounds? Nothing like a good jog on the Lakeshore Path or a run through the Arboretum to get yourself ready for the upcoming year! Experienced runner or novice jogger can “shape up” in a matter of 6-8 weeks by following a couple of simple rules.

• Train a minimum of four days a week. If you’ve never run before, start by using a combination of walking/jogging for a couple of miles every other day. If you’re an experienced runner start at a daily mileage you feel comfortable with.

• Increase your distance by about 10% a week. (i.e., if you just ran 25 miles, move up to 28, then 31, etc.) For variety, add in a short temp run by increasing your pace to the point where it just becomes difficult to converse. Once a week, try to go “long and slow.” A good mid-preseason schedule might have two easy runs, one tempo run, one long run and one medium distance run.

• Vary the scenery and the terrain. Madison has so many wonderful places to enjoy. And don’t forget to keep yourself well-hydrated!

• Go for a family run! Baby joggers (for children up to four) and bicycles can be a great way to get everyone involved in the outing!

Dr. Ron Grant
Pediatric Hospitalist
Meriter Hospital
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Planting a garden with your child

Spring has sprung, and summer is on its way. This is a great time to plant something with your child. Flowers are fun, but vegetables can help a child learn that food doesn’t just come from the refrigerator. Even veggie-avoiding kids will sometimes try things that they grew themselves.

Many of the most delicious crops require full sun, but they don’t require a garden plot. Some can be grown in a pot! Every summer I grow five big tomato plants out in my main vegetable garden, but I also grow a cherry tomato in a half barrel that’s on our deck. I plant flowers all around the tomato and use a more decorative support structure since it’s visible right out the window. Last year my main task was trying to teach my two-year old that the tomatoes taste best if you wait until they are orange. (I planted Sun Gold, a very tasty variety that I highly recommend!)

Pole beans are green beans that grow on tall vines and taste delicious. If you have a sunny piece of ground, you can put up one 6 to 8 foot pole and bring strings down from a nail at the top to tent pegs in the ground in a circle that is 4 to 6 feet in diameter. Have the strings about a foot apart on the ground, and leave one area with at least two feet in-between strings for an opening. Then plant 4 beans at the base of each string. As the summer progresses, the vines will create a playhouse of leaves—a shady place with first flowers and then beans. If you have multiple poles available you can make a teepee of poles, tied together at the top. Then you could plant 6-8 seeds for each pole since they are further apart, as in this picture. Alternatively if there’s a window of your house with a southern or western exposure, you could set up strings in front of the window. By the hottest part of the summer, the beans will provide a nice leafy sun block.

Have fun with planting and add your suggestions as comments on our Meriter Facebook page. What have you grown with your kids in the past?

Dr. Julia Mason

Pediatric Hospitalist

Meriter Hospital

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Keeping Summer Fun

Whoever thought that age four would be the time to start worrying about extracurricular activities? The arrival of the YMCA and MSCR summer guides began my internal debate.

Perusing through the pages of both guides peaked my interest in many activities. I haven’t played tennis is over five years, and the adult tennis class sounds like fun. If only I was ten again, I could go to summer camp. . . Okay, back to my four-year-old. Up until this year, he was too young for many activities. Promoting a healthy lifestyle (including physical activity) at this age is very important for life-long health, but do I sign him up for karate or swimming or gymnastics or yoga or outdoor soccer or a soccer camp or a multi-sport camp or . . . The list goes on and on, and it will only get longer as he gets older.

As with all families, our time is limited, and I want to make the most of the time we are together. I also look forward to having trips to the library, zoo, park and many of the other amenities offered by living in Madison. We also want to take short weekend trips to explore new places and if I fill the summer with scheduled activities, when will we go exploring? My son has taught me that spontaneity can be the most fun. Children benefit from structure in some activities, but also need time to explore the world on their own and create their own adventures. My husband and I thought it was a great idea to go see the St. Patrick’s Day parade. My son enjoyed the parade, but had just as much fun running around the Capital lawn playing hide-and-go-seek. I don’t want to limit these opportunities to create his own fun (and mine, for that fact) by scheduling away all our free time.

The American Academy of Pediatrics has a good article to help guide parents: http://www.healthychildren.org/English/healthy-living/fitness/Pages/Physical-Activity-Make-the-Right-Choice-for-Your-Child.aspx.

So, I continue to have the internal debate, but for the time being, my son is only scheduled in 1-2 activities per week. I am planning to keep all weekends free in the summer for exploring and discovering what fun we can have on our own. The most important thing is for us to figure out what works for our family, stay active and have fun.

Dr. Dana Johnson
Pediatrician
Meriter Pediatrics
2275 Deming Way, Suite 220
Middleton, WI 53562
608.417.8388
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